What is your idea of perfect happiness?
a warm, summer night under the stars with music, drinks, and dancing
What is your greatest fear?
What living person do you most admire?
the ones who have balance
What trait do you most deplore in yourself?
What trait do you most deplore in others?
What is your greatest extravagance?
mind altering substances
What is your favorite journey?
I-80 just past the nebraska/wyoming border headed west with the sun sinking over the rockies
What do you consider the most overrated virtue?
On what occasion do you lie?
there are too many to choose
What do you dislike most about your appearance?
Which living person do you most despise?
Which words or phrases do you overuse?
fuck, chaos, freedom
What is your greatest regret?
though i don’t really believe in having them, locking the door and refusing to answer my first husband during a fight moments before his suicide
What or who is the greatest love of your life?
When and where were you the happiest?
atlantic ave., south jersey, 2006 or austin ave., south jersey, 1999
Which talent would you like to have?
to be able to write prose
What is your current state of mind?
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
i would be less critical
If you could change one thing about your family, what would it be?
more would still be living
What do you consider your greatest achievement?
If you came back as a person or a thing, what do you think it would be?
probably a parrot
What is your most treasured possession?
my strength and humor
What do you regard as the lowest depths of misery?
boredom and silence
Where would you like to live?
a garden apartment with a southern exposure in old amsterdam
What is your favorite occupation?
talking, debating over drinks
What is your most marked characteristic?
What is the quality you most like in a man?
What is the quality you most like in a woman?
What do you most value in your friends?
Who are your favorite writers?
the list is always changing, evolving, but usually anything written by an american between 1915 and 1995
Who is your favorite hero of fiction?
Who are your heroes in real life?
men who died before their time
What are your favorite names?
constance, anais, henry, gregory
What is it that you most dislike?
being given orders
How would you like to die?
on my own terms
What is your motto?
go big or go home