proust questionnaire

What is your idea of perfect happiness?

a warm, summer night under the stars with music, drinks, and dancing

What is your greatest fear?


What living person do you most admire?

the ones who have balance

What trait do you most deplore in yourself?

my self-destructiveness

What trait do you most deplore in others?

narrow mindedness

What is your greatest extravagance?

mind altering substances

What is your favorite journey?

I-80 just past the nebraska/wyoming border headed west with the sun sinking over the rockies

What do you consider the most overrated virtue?


On what occasion do you lie?

there are too many to choose

What do you dislike most about your appearance?

my teeth

Which living person do you most despise?


Which words or phrases do you overuse?

fuck, chaos, freedom

What is your greatest regret?

though i don’t really believe in having them, locking the door and refusing to answer my first husband during a fight moments before his suicide

What or who is the greatest love of your life?


When and where were you the happiest?

atlantic ave., south jersey, 2006 or austin ave., south jersey, 1999

Which talent would you like to have?

to be able to write prose

What is your current state of mind?


If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

i would be less critical

If you could change one thing about your family, what would it be?

more would still be living

What do you consider your greatest achievement?


If you came back as a person or a thing, what do you think it would be?

probably a parrot

What is your most treasured possession?

my strength and humor

What do you regard as the lowest depths of misery?

boredom and silence

Where would you like to live?

a garden apartment with a southern exposure in old amsterdam

What is your favorite occupation?

talking, debating over drinks

What is your most marked characteristic?


What is the quality you most like in a man?


What is the quality you most like in a woman?


What do you most value in your friends?


Who are your favorite writers?

the list is always changing, evolving, but usually anything written by an american between 1915 and 1995

Who is your favorite hero of fiction?

sherlock holmes

Who are your heroes in real life?

men who died before their time

What are your favorite names?

constance, anais, henry, gregory

What is it that you most dislike?

being given orders

How would you like to die?

on my own terms

What is your motto?

go big or go home


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